The love language in Learning

Briony • February 19, 2025

Love is the foundation of the New Education


Discover Your Love Style: The Key to Deep Connection

Love is a fundamental human need. Sometimes we feel loved, and sometimes we don’t. But why is that? What determines whether we feel loved? The answer lies in our love language. By understanding how you and your loved ones experience and express love, you can build deeper and more meaningful relationships and achieve much more success in learning.


The Human Ego and Love

Our human ego craves recognition and love. When we feel loved, we are relaxed and open. Our brains then produce alpha waves, which create a state of relaxation and connection with our dream consciousness. This is essential for personal growth and also for learning, especially accelerated learning, which is also part of the Butterfly Brain Learning Method.


The Different Love Languages

Not everyone experiences love the same way. By understanding which love language suits you and the children you guide, you can reduce conflicts, improve the quality of your relationships, and more easily encourage children to learn.


  • Visual Love Language
    Some people feel loved when they receive positive facial expressions, such as a smile. This also applies to children: a warm, inviting glance can greatly enhance their sense of being loved.
  • Auditory Love Language
    Others need words of affirmation. Compliments, encouraging words, or a simple "I love you" are essential for them. Be careful: emotionally charged words may have a stronger impact on them.
  • Kinesthetic Love Language
    For some people, physical touch is crucial. A hug, a pat on the back, or a high-five can give them a deep sense of safety and love.
  • Energy-sensitive Love Language
    Some people and children are extremely sensitive to energy and vibrations. They feel loved in a pure, harmonious environment with positive energy and intentions. Electromagnetic smog or negative feelings from others can make them feel uneasy.


Conflicts and Empty Love Reservoir

Many conflicts arise because we don’t feel loved. Our love reservoir empties when we don't receive the right signals. What feels like love to one person may be insufficient or even invisible to another. Therefore, it’s crucial to know your own love language and that of the children you guide. This applies not only to romantic relationships but also to parent-child relationships and coach or teacher-child relationships.


The Love Language of the Soul

In addition to the ego, the soul also needs love. The soul feels loved when it is acknowledged and addressed in its deeper essence. This can be challenging, especially for people who are strongly in their rational thinking. However, it is possible to make a deeper connection with your soul and others through methods such as butterfly brain learning, even while working on educational tasks.


Love as the Basis for Growth

By consciously paying attention to the different love languages, you can strengthen your relationships and create a deeper connection. Love is the foundation for relaxation, growth, and even accelerated learning. Take the time to discover your love language and share it. Which love language speaks to you the most?


>>> Watch here the Replay of Love Language in Butterfly Brain Learning Masterclass.

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